Ingrata by Default

3 little kittens

April 6, 2008

who lost their mittens….

Not! This blog is not about a nursery rhyme.

I, the angsty blogger returns with a capital V–for Vendetta.  I never expected that I can easily recover from my mentally contipated state. But here were are, fishing out juicy details about a friend’s catfight with her high school "friends".

I intend to include this in my third installation of the BURN BOOK. But o well, I guess, the creative juices are overflowing and so I must spill it before I get constipated again! But where to start….

A few months back a friend (itago na lang nating sa alias na K) had a falling out with her high school friends. They were 8 in a group.   And like the trojan war… Eris the goddess of Discord hoisted the red flag up high!!!!

The first bomb exploded in their friendster group. The battle of words and the exchange of sarcastic banters was commenced by K and D.A. a.k.a the perpertrator. There was no face to face confrontation.  There was World War III in cyberspace.  

The falling out continued. So my friend, vented out all the repressed anger in her i.ph blog and even posted it in her fs blog. That was last december 2007 or january. So last season!

After all have been said and done, she thought that the friendship was really over. The damage was done. And she moved on.

Friday. She received  the first message from the fall outs and then another last saturday. After 48 years here’s what said.

The 3 little kittens of discord. Is there another apocalyse bound to happen? Noooo. OOOOops, aren’t you all a little to late to react after all the havoc that has happened? And it seems that you’re reaction steered away from the main issue. It wasn’t about that single incident. It’s about your insensitivity. It’s about keeping your little mouths shut when you’re opinions could have made a difference. It was you’re eutopic idea of friendship. Friendship is not about the petty cover ups, it’s not about your little tea parties and turning one’s back to a friend who has been ostracized and act as if nothing happened. Not all friendships are about happily ever afters and freaking sleep overs.

And now you still have the guts to lash out. Are you all stupid? The retaliation that you have all made….is pathetic. Pathetic to the point that you all made me laugh. And as the saying goes:

Aanhin mo pa ang damo kung patay na ang kabayo.

You all think that it’s her loss and that she has balooned into the  big bad wolf. But look at all of you…

Are you happy of what you all still are?? Spinless little kittens who lost their mittens. You tell her to grow up.  But look who’s talking.. 

I get it that you have been hurt by her words and that maybe it was a little off but it was her true emotions. That was what she felt after all of you have turned a blind eye. Do you all know how it feels to be betrayed? To be abandoned? 

No, because you act and think as one.  So save all your whining because the thing is.. nothing has changed but the fact that you all are still as immature and as pathetic as ever. And I know that this may sound as "high school" as ever but hey, when did blogging became a crime?

Aren’t we all entitled of our own opinions. Besides, there was no namedropping. Do you all think that the whole cybersociety know that it was you who she was talking about? Vain much? Bleah!

So save all the drama because to tell you all honestly, we’ve grown tired to even care. Panis na ang balita. Let us all  Goozfrava ourselves and move on. Run along now little kitties…we’ve all got lives to live.

You all got served– and it served you all right.  

 

 

 

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